Stuck in London… again!
Isn’t this a familiar theme!? Who decided this should be the year of the convention in London? Although to be fair the last convention was November 2009, but in blog time — and I have been MIA from the blog — it’s variations on a theme.
Anyways, lets keep this simple. If you are in London tonight (June 9) or tomorrow night (June 10) and feel like playing drop me a line. yourgirlontheside (at) gmail.com.
Don’t think I’ll go through with it? Read about the last time I was here.
Now I know what some of you are thinking… why didn’t you keep in touch? Didn’t you learn your lesson from last time about last minute hook-ups in not-Toronto Ontario? Why didn’t you keep the blog up, be more active on FetLife or Facebook…
You’re absolutely right. And, if you want to you can punish me for that (well I’d want you to anyways).
The simple answer is burn out.
The longer answer is I changed jobs, I changed jobs again, I dissolved into vanilla world and I’m really questioning what I want to do with this blog and these profiles.
Now, don’t have a heart attack now about thinking I don’t want some rough and tumble play. It’s more that I think I’m coming to terms with the idea that I’m not a sub. I sometimes like to be treated like a sub, but the Dom’s that I’ve worked best with were simply laid back people that had a great amount of self control and didn’t fuss so much about the actual dom / sub thing.
Anyways lets not get into a long philosophical discussion about the finer points of BDSM sometimes it’s just fun to hookup.
So what should you expect to find in me? I’m traveling light this conference so I’m very girl next door, I suppose if you want me to go buy something pretty then you’ll need to wait to tomorrow.
In case you don’t have the time to read, I’m 5’10 brown hair, brown eyes, freckles – I am a plus size girl, although many would describe me as average (I suppose it depends on the sample size). I’m a size 14-16, and weigh about 195 lbs.
I like big men. Tall men. Strong men. I also like big women, soft women, aggressive women and strong women.
Hello fit clean and discrete Dom male in Chatham attached but able to be in London on Thursday evening for a time lets chat i have yahoo i love to take control spank and use her totally making her beg and plead i stand 6’3 240 lbs fit lets chat.
Sometimes being a girl rocks! Thank you London for being quick on the up take this time. I think my dance card is full if not quite confirmed.
Damn and to think I’ll be there all alone on Friday. Care to go to the ROM sometime with me?
Museums are one of my favourite places.
10:04 pm was date has not contacted me yet, okay I said I’d be back by 10:00 pm and it’s only been 4 min.
10:21 I think I need to declare myself stood up on night 1 in London. It’s a hot date with CSI unless anyone in London is reading this (June 9, 2010)
10:40 pm definitely stood up. While I do try not to reveal the identities of any actual dates I have I’ll consider it a public service to FYI anyone who sets up a date with this guy.
The guy that didn’t show up to fuck me:
http://www.collarme.com/personals/v/436603/details.htm